The basic missionary position -so called because it’s the recommended sexual position by most avid practitioners of all three chauvinistic monotheistic religions - is limited and boring. It calls for the man to come between the woman’s legs, balancing himself above her with his upper body and arms. This position constrains the range of motion, and the angle of penetration is awkward and not comfortable (and also sometimes painful for the woman). In order to make the most of it here are a few pointers:

• Get closer - the classic missionary position calls for you to sort of hang above the woman, using your arms as leverage. I suggest that instead you get close to her, hugging her body so that your upper bodies are smeared together, her boobs tight against your chest, your head next to her ear and chick. This move will immediately transform the remote classic missionary position, into a modern heat conductive position;

• Get entangled - with your bodies tightly against each other, reach with your hands under her back, and grab hold of her buttocks with your palms. You can do this with both hands, or only with one, leaving the other to caress her tits, or do anything else (stroke her hair, for instance). With your hand underneath her, you can now use your masculine power (if you have any) to control her body. you can, for instance, make her role a bit to the side, or even lift her completely of the bed. Most women just love this kind of raw masculine power being exerted on them;

• Lift and pump - once you are close together, your arms under her, lift her legs around you. If she can (if she is flexible enough, and most women are) she should close her legs around your pelvis. Now you are like one body, with you controlling the action. From this position try, for instance, to lift yourself to a sitting position with her clinging to your body.

  

Try these tips, and see how with small changes you transform the alienated boring missionary position into a new and exciting heat conductive modern position. Enjoy!

Being, for the most part, a utilitarian and even a mechanical sort of activity, masturbation is the most prolific sexual activity performed by people. At any given moment many more people are engaged in self pleasuring themselves, than they are in pleasuring each other. This is really understandable since in solo masturbation you can hardly disappoint anyone, misperform, preeject, or be misunderstood. Nonetheless, what is good for one, is surly good for two, and the act of masturbating together can be great fun. This is equally true for seasoned couples who want to spice up their sex, as it is in casual sex where mutual masturbation can be a great kinky prelude to steamy non committal hardcore sex.

Whatever the case, once you get over your reservation regarding the prospect of masturbating in front of someone else, you’ll find that masturbating with a partner can be greatly satisfying, as well as utilitarian. It can be a great solution for times when you are not in the mood for full fledged sex, or for that time in the month when penetration is not desirable, or simply as an innovative manner of foreplay.

Whatever the case may be although there are hundreds of possible positions for mutual masturbation, these are divided into three basic categories:

• Positions where although you are both in close physical proximity, each one is doing his and her own thing. This type of mutual masturbation is for the more daring couples. The positions suitable for this type are really the same as the ones used for solo masturbation. You can both opt to assume the same masturbating position, or else choose the one you are most familiar and comfortable with. Whatever you do, make sure you remain in contact, either physical or eye contact;

• Positions where you cross masturbate - you pleasure her, and she pleasures you. This sort of mutual masturbation is especially good for seasoned couples who may never have tried masturbating together. It is really a great way to get physically reacquainted with each other. The best starting position is to simply lie down next to each other so that each of you can easily reach the other;

• Positions where one of you masturbates for both. I suggest initially you let the woman take the initiative and simultaneously masturbate for both of you. This is since women are usually more particular than men regarding masturbation. The only rule regarding the positions most suitable for this sort of duo masturbation is that the active party enjoy an easy and comfortable access to the relevant body parts. Coming to think about it, this really gives you a whole lot of leeway, and you can even perform standing on your head.

Whatever option or position you choose, I implore you to get over your inhibitions, if you have any, and try mutual masturbation. One of the best intimate and modern ways to experience mutual masturbation in a secured and home environment, is live sex chat. Simply find the webcam girl of your dreams, and take her to a private session of mutual masturbation . . .

As opposed to the real world, in the world of BDSM everything is quite clear and simple. There are those who enjoy dominating, those who enjoy to be dominated, those who enjoy both worlds and all the rest who are either simply ignorant to the joys of BDSM sex games, or are just too stuck up to admit to them. When it comes to great sex, however, it is sometimes a great idea to make things as simple as can be. If and when you commit, even for a brief while, to the BDSM outlook, you will quickly find yourself obliged to take sides - are you a master, a slave, or a switch who can enjoy both sides?

Trust me you’ll know instinctively which role is the most natural for you. If your partner is also willing to go along you can commence to play some highly enjoyable sex games. Like in the THE COMMEDIA DELL’ARTE, the plot is very simple and depends on the roles you chose. The atmosphere is, of course very important. Opt for a darkened candle lit room, and some dark classical, or heavy and slow electronic music. Props can also help you get into your part. Some soft ropes, and/or velvet laced handcuffs can be great for starters. When all is set simply embark into the BDSM wonder land. I guarantee that once you transcend your initial reservations and inhibitions, you may never want to go back to ordinary mundane sex.

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Anal sex can be fun if both partners are consenting. However, it can also be painful, not to say unhealthy if done incorrectly. Here are a few guidelines:

• Make sure the area is clean - most women will bath and wash their anus thoroughly before committing to anal sex. Women will also refrain from anal if they believe their bowels are full. Always, but always, discuss the prospect of having anal sex with your partner prior to sticking her in the butt. Anal sex must be completely consensual!!!

• Stop at the slightest indication of stress. This means that if she asks you to stop - you fucking stop - immediately!!! Also, if you sense something is a wrong stop. This is especially true if this is the first time you are attempting anal intercourse, but also for seasoned practitioners;

• Take your time - begin by preparing the area. This means massaging the anus with some lubricant, and making sure it is relaxed. It is a good idea to begin with your fingers. Simply start by very slowly inserting a well lubricated finger into her anus. If at this stage things don’t go smoothly, stop ant give it up. If you do manage to insert a finger in without her screams breaking the window, you can continue. After the area is used to the penetration feeling, and is well lubricated, you can try and insert your penis, again SLOWLY!

“My tight ass is waiting for you!”

At any rate, like all else in sex, practice makes perfect, so if you find an anal sex willing partner practice with her.

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Here are a few techniques for prolonging the sexual experience:

• Start & Stop Technique - don’t go all the way at once like an over eager rodeo rider. Do things in intervals - mix and match. You can start giving each other some oral sex, stop for a while for hugging and kissing, go back to sucking, have some intercourse, go back to oral . . . you get the point.

“I’m waiting. Tell me what to do!”

• Regular Masturbation - Men must masturbate regularly for two reasons: [1] the renewal of the sperm; [2] to avoid premature ejaculation or night ejaculation. If you know you are about to have a wild night, it is a good idea to masturbate that same morning, or even in closer proximity to the event. This will release unused sexual tension, as well as old sperm, and allow you to last longer when the time comes.

“I’m home alone, and so horny!”

• Wearing Condoms - this is an obvious one. Wearing a condom reduces the direct friction on your penis, thus allowing you to last longer.

“I’m on live sex chat!”

• Tantric techniques - this is not the place to elaborate on the full range of tantric techniques, but breathing correctly during sex, and/or applying pressure on certain parts of the genitalia (on the root of your dick, for instance), can prolong sex to almost unlimited lengths.

If you really want to win a woman over give her a foot massage. Women go bananas for foot massages, and you will win a lot of points if you proclaim yourself as an established foot massager. The only thing is that you will be expected to deliver. Here are a few short tips on how to give an excellent foot massage without being an expert:

• Do each of her feet separately. Before you begin make sure her feet are clean. If not (she’s a human you know) wipe her feet clean with a warm towel. Wash your hands, and make sure they are warm to the touch. Prepare some kind of massage lotion or oil beforehand;

• Begin by engulfing her entire foot with your palms and squeeze lightly. Hold it like this for half a minute or so. Let go when you feel her foot is warm. Then start to move you closed palm up and down along her entire foot from ankle to toes. Id her foot is cold, rub it lightly until you feel it gets warmer;

• When her foot is warm and used to your touch, apply some lotion on your fingers and spread them on your palms. In summer you can use a lotion you placed in the frig to cool down. In winter make sure the lotion is not cold. After your palms are covered in lotion begin to apply it on her soles beginning with her Achilles heel and ankles (when massaging the Achilles heel take extra care not to squeeze too hard so as not to hurt her);

• When lotion is applied all over her soles, begin to massage her soles along the meridians running right through the center. Move the tips of your thumb over the meridians all the way from ankle to toes, and vice-a-versa. Apply varying amounts of pressure, but don’t overdo it. constantly keep an eye on her face, and be attentive to any pain or discomfort;

• After massaging her soles for a while move up to her toes, and work them gently one by one in a circular motion;

• Finish by hugging her entire foot with your palm like you did in the beginning. When you are done, put her sock back up, and move to the other foot.

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If you follow these rules, you will treat your woman to a very pleasurable experience - the rewards will surly come . . .

Whether you do it before or after sex, taking a shower or a bath together is great fun, and can be extremely sexually arousing. A shared bath has all the ingredients for building up sexual excitement already built in. Naked wet bodies touching each other, running water, steam and comfortable heat, and all in an enclosed cozy space. If you take a shared shower before sex, it is better to make it in a standing shower and refrain from long baths. A long bath will make you both sleepy and sluggish. So, unless you are planning a long romantic weekend, opt instead for a quick shower, and start the foreplay already when you are both under the running stream. Massage each other’s body, apply foamy soap, play around, squirt water on each other, wrestle your wet and smooth bodies against each other, have wet oral sex . . . If you take a shared shower after sex, a long nice soaking bath is the best. Simply relax into a tub filled with steamy hot soapy water. You can spice up the water with ethereal oils, or colorful bath salts. Now just relax, do each other a foot massage, play with a rubber duck, drink a glass of wine . . . fuck it sounds nice! I want to have a shared shower with a hot chick right now . . .

“I’m waiting for you here!”

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Here are five foods that are said to increase the libido. There is no hard scientific proof of their efficiency, but what have you got to lose?

• Almonds - almonds have been a symbol for fertility ever since someone decided that they are a long long time ago. I couldn’t figure out why, but that’s just the way it is. Anyways, the smell of almonds, which is the strongest in an almond extract, is believed to make females horny. I actually tried spraying my room in almond smell, but all it did was make my date hungry for an almond cake.

• Bananas - Well, you can figure out for yourself why throughout the ages bananas were and still are considered an aphrodisiac food. If you didn’t get it yet, they look like a fucking erect penis. From my experience unless they are under ripe to the point of being stiff as a . . . . they are really useless as. They do taste good though.

• Chocolate - Chocolate contains all kinds of chemicals that are supposed to increase the flow of electricity in out brain in addition to containing a load of antioxidants. The combination of this increase of electrical currents in the brain and antioxidants is believed to boost up our libido. In my experience, women simply like attention and like sweets, thus bringing a box of chocolates to a date caters to both these female cravings.

• Figs - Ancient wisdom has it that an open fig can sexually stimulate women. This is true, of course, only if you put it on top of your dick. It is true, however, that when you split open a ripe fig you can’t but be reminded of a wet pussy. From my experience eating figs together can arouse sexual feelings.

• Oysters - Here is another fruit of nature which looks, and also smells (when fresh) like a pussy. It seems that this is really the only reason why people have been harvesting and eating this repulsive thing for eons now. It is truly a proof that guys are willing to go to any length for some pussy. From my experience, though, eating oysters together does sex up things. Don’t know why that is, it simply is!

“Come lick my cream!”

Some of the research for this tip was done by asking dozens of webcam babes on adult live sex chat what foods do they consider as sexually arousing. Since I was too preoccupied with their naked bodies, and shaking tits, I forgot their answers. However, you can ask them yourself . . .

So, bon-appétit!

This time a really short and easy to implement sex tip.

Here are two simple ways to tell whether a woman is close to orgasm:

• Most women pick up the pace of their breathing before reaching an orgasm;

• Women curl their toes just before orgasm. If you look and they don’t it’s a pretty good indicator that she’s faking.

“watch my toes!”

The best way to test these indicators in a controlled environment is in live sex chat. Go into a private 1-on-1 session with a sexy webcam babe and observe her as she comes. Try this several times and soon you’ll become an expert on female orgasms. And remember - Knowing more about women means getting more women!

Some women love it when guys shove their fingers into their tunnel, while others hate it. To be on the safe side begin by caressing and lightly kissing the flesh around her pussy while slowly and gently massaging her clit with the tip of your finger (if you don’t know where the clit is refer to rule no. 1 above). If all this goes well she should be wet by now. At this point you can begin and slowly insert your finger into her vagina. If she pulls back, or better yet instructs you to stop, well that’s a good indication whether to continue or not. If your finger gets sucked in without any objections, you may assume you have a green light to press forward.

“I’m ready for you!”

Now it’s really all a matter of sensitivity and experience. Begin slowly and quicken the pace according to the way your woman reacts. You can try various finger moves - in and out, circular motion, massaging the upper and lower walls of her pussy, multiple finger treatment, using both hands, etc’ - but always be attentive to the vocal and physical reactions of the gal. You can try and ask her verbally whether she likes what you are doing, but if you sense she resents talking during sex don’t push it. From my experience I learned that most women like the combination of tonguing and fingering. In this way the pussy is always wet, and the clit always stimulated. This requires some skill, so get practicing!

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