The basic missionary position -so called because it’s the recommended sexual position by most avid practitioners of all three chauvinistic monotheistic religions - is limited and boring. It calls for the man to come between the woman’s legs, balancing himself above her with his upper body and arms. This position constrains the range of motion, and the angle of penetration is awkward and not comfortable (and also sometimes painful for the woman). In order to make the most of it here are a few pointers:

• Get closer - the classic missionary position calls for you to sort of hang above the woman, using your arms as leverage. I suggest that instead you get close to her, hugging her body so that your upper bodies are smeared together, her boobs tight against your chest, your head next to her ear and chick. This move will immediately transform the remote classic missionary position, into a modern heat conductive position;

• Get entangled - with your bodies tightly against each other, reach with your hands under her back, and grab hold of her buttocks with your palms. You can do this with both hands, or only with one, leaving the other to caress her tits, or do anything else (stroke her hair, for instance). With your hand underneath her, you can now use your masculine power (if you have any) to control her body. you can, for instance, make her role a bit to the side, or even lift her completely of the bed. Most women just love this kind of raw masculine power being exerted on them;

• Lift and pump - once you are close together, your arms under her, lift her legs around you. If she can (if she is flexible enough, and most women are) she should close her legs around your pelvis. Now you are like one body, with you controlling the action. From this position try, for instance, to lift yourself to a sitting position with her clinging to your body.

  

Try these tips, and see how with small changes you transform the alienated boring missionary position into a new and exciting heat conductive modern position. Enjoy!

If you really want to win a woman over give her a foot massage. Women go bananas for foot massages, and you will win a lot of points if you proclaim yourself as an established foot massager. The only thing is that you will be expected to deliver. Here are a few short tips on how to give an excellent foot massage without being an expert:

• Do each of her feet separately. Before you begin make sure her feet are clean. If not (she’s a human you know) wipe her feet clean with a warm towel. Wash your hands, and make sure they are warm to the touch. Prepare some kind of massage lotion or oil beforehand;

• Begin by engulfing her entire foot with your palms and squeeze lightly. Hold it like this for half a minute or so. Let go when you feel her foot is warm. Then start to move you closed palm up and down along her entire foot from ankle to toes. Id her foot is cold, rub it lightly until you feel it gets warmer;

• When her foot is warm and used to your touch, apply some lotion on your fingers and spread them on your palms. In summer you can use a lotion you placed in the frig to cool down. In winter make sure the lotion is not cold. After your palms are covered in lotion begin to apply it on her soles beginning with her Achilles heel and ankles (when massaging the Achilles heel take extra care not to squeeze too hard so as not to hurt her);

• When lotion is applied all over her soles, begin to massage her soles along the meridians running right through the center. Move the tips of your thumb over the meridians all the way from ankle to toes, and vice-a-versa. Apply varying amounts of pressure, but don’t overdo it. constantly keep an eye on her face, and be attentive to any pain or discomfort;

• After massaging her soles for a while move up to her toes, and work them gently one by one in a circular motion;

• Finish by hugging her entire foot with your palm like you did in the beginning. When you are done, put her sock back up, and move to the other foot.

These feet are waiting for your hands! - click here . . .

If you follow these rules, you will treat your woman to a very pleasurable experience - the rewards will surly come . . .

There are many turn-on’s out there - but one of the favorites is some quality porn. You must know how to get your partner in the mood for some serious sex and one way of doing it is through the visual media of pornography. Renting or buying some sensible porno - nothing too hectic that’ll make her think you’re one sick and twisted fucker though! (although that can also be a good thing as we’ll learn later). You want something to show the gal that you’re able to think outside the box of the conventional. Chances are that she’s equally daring and adventurous. She’ll be happy to try out new things if you show some backbone and initiative. When the clothes come off and the lights go out, all inhibitions naturally evaporate. That polite person - hidden behind the façade of society’s rules will soon fade away. Graceful Mary becomes the scream-queen as polite Peter goes on another erotic conquest. The sexual he-man will emerge from within you and you will need to show the way. If you’re interested in getting her warmed up to the task, then slot a DVD into the player and free the inhibitions from the room; lighten the mood and get cranked up for some hard-core action. Remember there’s a fine line between downright disgusting & twisted and something that’s sure to excite and arouse the two of you. It’s all about eroticism. That’s where it’s at guys - getting the love juices flowing, getting that heart-rate up and letting your sexual energy reach a climax.

“Come watch me watch you!”

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It is true that like men, women - even married ones - also enjoy the occasional quickie. Everyday life, however, is usually more mundane. The lot of us who are not liberated yuppie bachelors, usually come to the end of the day with just enough energy to maybe watch some TV, or read a bit in bed before hitting the sack.

“cum play with me!”

It takes some effort, especially among seasoned couples, to gather enough stamina for sex. Now, as opposed to the general male view, the mere suggestion of sexual conduct (for example: “honey, prepare your cunt, here I come!”, or the more traditional middle class one: “honey, it’s been a long time!”), does not turn a woman’s pussy instantly wet. No. As opposed to the steaming, ever passionate, instant 247 enabled sex portrayed in popular media and porn flicks, real after work before going to bed sex needs building up in order to be exciting, and not just another chore that needs to be brushed out of the way.

“Guess what I have in the box!”

The ability to play, and to remain spicy even after working hours, ensures not only better sex, but also a healthier, prolonged sex life. Mind you, there is no need to hang yourself butt naked from the chandelier. The simple hugging, kissing, and showing general human affection before going animalistic, will usually suffice.

So, try not to be a corpse in bed, there will be plenty of time for that in the grave!

Yes, this again! I know it’s difficult to fathom, but most women find pre-penetration frolicking to be extremely sexually stimulating. In fact, the more inventive you’ll prove yourself to be before the actual sex, the more rewarding the sex will be. Also, professing yourself to be an able foreplayer will give you a lot of extra points with potential sex mates.

“Come foreplay with me!”

Of course, you will also have to deliver. Good foreplay can be anything from the complex romantic paramilitary operation (for example: a candlelit room with a trail of flowers leading all the way to the bed where heart-shaped chocolates and champagne are waiting), through to the downright idiotic (for example: cooking your woman a light dinner completely nude, or a simple nude wrestling match on the bed), up to the simple hugging and kissing.

“I’m ready for you”

So remember, on occasion it is all right, even great fun, to jump straight into the deed, but on other occasions take the time to foreplay!

Believe me, not only will it make you much more desirable, you’ll also better your chances of a rematch by a mile.