Being, for the most part, a utilitarian and even a mechanical sort of activity, masturbation is the most prolific sexual activity performed by people. At any given moment many more people are engaged in self pleasuring themselves, than they are in pleasuring each other. This is really understandable since in solo masturbation you can hardly disappoint anyone, misperform, preeject, or be misunderstood. Nonetheless, what is good for one, is surly good for two, and the act of masturbating together can be great fun. This is equally true for seasoned couples who want to spice up their sex, as it is in casual sex where mutual masturbation can be a great kinky prelude to steamy non committal hardcore sex.

Whatever the case, once you get over your reservation regarding the prospect of masturbating in front of someone else, you’ll find that masturbating with a partner can be greatly satisfying, as well as utilitarian. It can be a great solution for times when you are not in the mood for full fledged sex, or for that time in the month when penetration is not desirable, or simply as an innovative manner of foreplay.

Whatever the case may be although there are hundreds of possible positions for mutual masturbation, these are divided into three basic categories:

• Positions where although you are both in close physical proximity, each one is doing his and her own thing. This type of mutual masturbation is for the more daring couples. The positions suitable for this type are really the same as the ones used for solo masturbation. You can both opt to assume the same masturbating position, or else choose the one you are most familiar and comfortable with. Whatever you do, make sure you remain in contact, either physical or eye contact;

• Positions where you cross masturbate - you pleasure her, and she pleasures you. This sort of mutual masturbation is especially good for seasoned couples who may never have tried masturbating together. It is really a great way to get physically reacquainted with each other. The best starting position is to simply lie down next to each other so that each of you can easily reach the other;

• Positions where one of you masturbates for both. I suggest initially you let the woman take the initiative and simultaneously masturbate for both of you. This is since women are usually more particular than men regarding masturbation. The only rule regarding the positions most suitable for this sort of duo masturbation is that the active party enjoy an easy and comfortable access to the relevant body parts. Coming to think about it, this really gives you a whole lot of leeway, and you can even perform standing on your head.

Whatever option or position you choose, I implore you to get over your inhibitions, if you have any, and try mutual masturbation. One of the best intimate and modern ways to experience mutual masturbation in a secured and home environment, is live sex chat. Simply find the webcam girl of your dreams, and take her to a private session of mutual masturbation . . .

People have been devising sex positions since, well, since there are people around. There are literally hundreds of positions, although, to be honest, they are all variations on a dozen or so basic positions. Nonetheless, whether you are the traditional type and contain yourself to the one or two most common positions, or whether you are the experimental type and risk your life with some acrobatic Kama Sutra style positions, here are a few simple tips that can make all the difference:

1. Diversifying sex positions are a sure recipe for spicing up the old sex life. If your entire life you constrained yourself to the missionary position, then you are really beyond redemption. However, if you still have some teen spirit in you experiment with sex positions;

2. Some sex positions are designed for foreplay and/or solo or duo masturbations. So, don’t be stuck up on penetration alone;

3. The overdose of cheap porno in our lives led many men to believe that the pelvis is really the only body part they should exercise . In reality, if you really want to enhance your sex life you better start moving your entire body;

4. Sex positions are like dancing - in order to work you have to find your rhythm;

5. Finally, when it comes to sexual positions, no matter what anyone says do whatever the fuck is good for you.

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As opposed to the real world, in the world of BDSM everything is quite clear and simple. There are those who enjoy dominating, those who enjoy to be dominated, those who enjoy both worlds and all the rest who are either simply ignorant to the joys of BDSM sex games, or are just too stuck up to admit to them. When it comes to great sex, however, it is sometimes a great idea to make things as simple as can be. If and when you commit, even for a brief while, to the BDSM outlook, you will quickly find yourself obliged to take sides - are you a master, a slave, or a switch who can enjoy both sides?

Trust me you’ll know instinctively which role is the most natural for you. If your partner is also willing to go along you can commence to play some highly enjoyable sex games. Like in the THE COMMEDIA DELL’ARTE, the plot is very simple and depends on the roles you chose. The atmosphere is, of course very important. Opt for a darkened candle lit room, and some dark classical, or heavy and slow electronic music. Props can also help you get into your part. Some soft ropes, and/or velvet laced handcuffs can be great for starters. When all is set simply embark into the BDSM wonder land. I guarantee that once you transcend your initial reservations and inhibitions, you may never want to go back to ordinary mundane sex.

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If you really want to win a woman over give her a foot massage. Women go bananas for foot massages, and you will win a lot of points if you proclaim yourself as an established foot massager. The only thing is that you will be expected to deliver. Here are a few short tips on how to give an excellent foot massage without being an expert:

• Do each of her feet separately. Before you begin make sure her feet are clean. If not (she’s a human you know) wipe her feet clean with a warm towel. Wash your hands, and make sure they are warm to the touch. Prepare some kind of massage lotion or oil beforehand;

• Begin by engulfing her entire foot with your palms and squeeze lightly. Hold it like this for half a minute or so. Let go when you feel her foot is warm. Then start to move you closed palm up and down along her entire foot from ankle to toes. Id her foot is cold, rub it lightly until you feel it gets warmer;

• When her foot is warm and used to your touch, apply some lotion on your fingers and spread them on your palms. In summer you can use a lotion you placed in the frig to cool down. In winter make sure the lotion is not cold. After your palms are covered in lotion begin to apply it on her soles beginning with her Achilles heel and ankles (when massaging the Achilles heel take extra care not to squeeze too hard so as not to hurt her);

• When lotion is applied all over her soles, begin to massage her soles along the meridians running right through the center. Move the tips of your thumb over the meridians all the way from ankle to toes, and vice-a-versa. Apply varying amounts of pressure, but don’t overdo it. constantly keep an eye on her face, and be attentive to any pain or discomfort;

• After massaging her soles for a while move up to her toes, and work them gently one by one in a circular motion;

• Finish by hugging her entire foot with your palm like you did in the beginning. When you are done, put her sock back up, and move to the other foot.

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If you follow these rules, you will treat your woman to a very pleasurable experience - the rewards will surly come . . .

Here are five foods that are said to increase the libido. There is no hard scientific proof of their efficiency, but what have you got to lose?

• Almonds - almonds have been a symbol for fertility ever since someone decided that they are a long long time ago. I couldn’t figure out why, but that’s just the way it is. Anyways, the smell of almonds, which is the strongest in an almond extract, is believed to make females horny. I actually tried spraying my room in almond smell, but all it did was make my date hungry for an almond cake.

• Bananas - Well, you can figure out for yourself why throughout the ages bananas were and still are considered an aphrodisiac food. If you didn’t get it yet, they look like a fucking erect penis. From my experience unless they are under ripe to the point of being stiff as a . . . . they are really useless as. They do taste good though.

• Chocolate - Chocolate contains all kinds of chemicals that are supposed to increase the flow of electricity in out brain in addition to containing a load of antioxidants. The combination of this increase of electrical currents in the brain and antioxidants is believed to boost up our libido. In my experience, women simply like attention and like sweets, thus bringing a box of chocolates to a date caters to both these female cravings.

• Figs - Ancient wisdom has it that an open fig can sexually stimulate women. This is true, of course, only if you put it on top of your dick. It is true, however, that when you split open a ripe fig you can’t but be reminded of a wet pussy. From my experience eating figs together can arouse sexual feelings.

• Oysters - Here is another fruit of nature which looks, and also smells (when fresh) like a pussy. It seems that this is really the only reason why people have been harvesting and eating this repulsive thing for eons now. It is truly a proof that guys are willing to go to any length for some pussy. From my experience, though, eating oysters together does sex up things. Don’t know why that is, it simply is!

“Come lick my cream!”

Some of the research for this tip was done by asking dozens of webcam babes on adult live sex chat what foods do they consider as sexually arousing. Since I was too preoccupied with their naked bodies, and shaking tits, I forgot their answers. However, you can ask them yourself . . .

So, bon-appétit!

With the stock market falling faster than the stocks of Sarah Palin after the election, millions of people losing their jobs, top executives leasing private jets to get to a meeting dealing with them going bust, the sound of your savings in flames, and most of all the overwhelming feeling of complete and utter helplessness, is certainly not very beneficial for your libido. Given the fact that this crisis is expected to fuck up our lives in the near future, it is a good thing to learn some new sexual survival skills. So to help you here are a few guidelines to the sexual survival of the financial crisis:

“I need sexurity!”

1. Cook romantic diners in your house instead of going out to fancy restaurants. As women really dig a guy that can cook, This will not only raise your stocks as a potential lover, but also save you loads of money (I’ll give some recipes for simple to make sexually arousing dishes in the upcoming tips);
2. Ask your date to a bike ride instead of using your car. This will not only save you gas, but can be perceived as a creative romantic gesture, plus you know you should lose a few pounds anyways;
3. When asked what you do for a living opt for one of two options: [a] Say you are an accountant in a big financial firm that just went bust, and exploit her feelings of sympathy towards your fired ass misfortune; [b] Say you are a bankruptcy lawyer, and hope that her sense of womanly need for security will overcome the fact that you are prospering off the misery of others;
4. Open a modeling agency for former female executives. This is sure to bring into your lap hoards of desperate middle management MILFs. Heck, you may find yourself taking nude pictures of the slut who was promoted instead of you in the last bout of equal opportunity;
5. Open an account in one of the adult live sex chat sites. This will promise you a never ending supply of the hottest babes on the planet delivered straight to your home. These babes are oblivious to the fact that civilization as we know it is collapsing, and all they want to do is pleasure you right here and right now. When it comes to escapism - which, let’s face it, is the only sensible solution to the situation, Adult live webcams are the dirt cheap and healthy alternative to hallucinogenic drugs.

“Top busty executive looking for any job, any!”

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There are many turn-on’s out there - but one of the favorites is some quality porn. You must know how to get your partner in the mood for some serious sex and one way of doing it is through the visual media of pornography. Renting or buying some sensible porno - nothing too hectic that’ll make her think you’re one sick and twisted fucker though! (although that can also be a good thing as we’ll learn later). You want something to show the gal that you’re able to think outside the box of the conventional. Chances are that she’s equally daring and adventurous. She’ll be happy to try out new things if you show some backbone and initiative. When the clothes come off and the lights go out, all inhibitions naturally evaporate. That polite person - hidden behind the façade of society’s rules will soon fade away. Graceful Mary becomes the scream-queen as polite Peter goes on another erotic conquest. The sexual he-man will emerge from within you and you will need to show the way. If you’re interested in getting her warmed up to the task, then slot a DVD into the player and free the inhibitions from the room; lighten the mood and get cranked up for some hard-core action. Remember there’s a fine line between downright disgusting & twisted and something that’s sure to excite and arouse the two of you. It’s all about eroticism. That’s where it’s at guys - getting the love juices flowing, getting that heart-rate up and letting your sexual energy reach a climax.

“Come watch me watch you!”

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The philosophy behind the tongue

Oral sex is the most erotic thing you can do before penetration. Unfortunately, too many guys out there think of oral sex as a one sided affair summarized in two words - blow job. Well people, I’ve got news for you - the times when most women satisfied themselves by satisfying their man is well gone in most normal societies. Today more and more women, especially the young and hot ones (i.e. the ones you want to fuck in the first place), are seasoned veterans of many a female orgasm (due to men’s much too common ineptitude in this field, these are mostly self induced).

“I’m waiting to lick your lollipop!”

If you think you can lay butt naked on your back, hands stretched behind your head, and have your dick sucked with no strings attached, think again. Unless you are the master in a BDSM oriented relationship (a subject I’ll deal with in a separate post), getting a blowjob is now a two track deal. I blow you - you blow me. A reciprocal oral sex is no longer a mere recommendation at the discretion of the bloke, no. Today it is a prerequisite of most, if not all, babes. Not only that, but many a woman will judge a guy by his tongue skills, the motto being - “you can’t suck pussy, you can’t have pussy!”. But that’s only the half of it - in many cases the scales have turned completely, and you may find yourself unilaterally servicing a pussy - life’s a bitch ain’t it? Keep in mind that polls among young western babes reveal time after time that guys who give good tongue are hard to come by, and are hot sought after merchandize. Now combine that fact with the revelation in my first sex-tip that women talk about guys, and you’ve got a potent recipe to get pussy and loads of it (I have a friend who actually made a successful career out of being a master pussy licker).

“I want to be creamed!”

Having said all that, you should be able to understand by now that in order to better your chances of getting laid you must learn how to suck pussy, and learn to do it well. Keep posted and I’ll tell you how.

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Living in a densely populated urban area, I get to hear lovemaking as it happens. Shouts and screams of utter sexual bliss are part of my night score. Women, of course, are expected to express themselves vocally, and those who don’t risk the stigma of frigidity. Guys, on the other hand, can conduct an entire fucking sessions as though they were silent movie stars. So, wake the fuck up! Women like to hear you moan with pleasure as much as you like to hear them. Now mind you we’re not talking about running live commentary of your anal/oral/vaginal penetration - you are not on ESPN.

“cum make me shout!”

What we’re talking about is keeping the channels of communication open - expressing yourselves. The act of fucking is naturally intimate (well, most of the time) and decidedly intense. The way to enhance the entire experience is through body language, sensitivity, praise, encouragement, talking, moaning, screaming, and so forth. All of these verbal and non-verbal gestures will lead to a heightened awareness and appreciation of just what’s going on between you and your partner as you exchange fluids.

“I’m sexpressing myself!”

So after you’ve talked your head off just to persuade the bitch to get into bed with you, don’t go dumb when you finally get her there. Sexpress yourself!

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Here’s a small Martha Stewart style sex tip that can enhance your fucking experience immeasurably - pillows can be used as great sex props. How so you’re probably wondering? Well, think of them as a handy leverage device. You can literally utilize your pillow to position your body, or that of your partner, so that a whole array of enhanced sexual positions opens up. For instance, pillows can be used to prop your babe’s butt tail-end up while you’re getting medieval on her ass . Likewise you can use a pillow to elevate your pelvis while she rodeos your cock and balls. You can shove a stack of fluffy pillows under her back, lift her feet way up, and shag her on the diagonal. This feet over head position is great since sex induced adrenalin will rush into her brains and make her delirious with pleasure. So much so that you may need another pillow to muffle up her screams. Heck, even before I’ve mentioned the joy of a good pillow fight (I’ll dedicate a whole post to this issue), there are plenty of pillow possibilities so use your imagination. When it’s all said and done you’ll have that wonderful aromatic reminder of a deed well done when you lay down your head to rest on your favorite pillow!

“Cum feel my pillows!”