Booze has always been guys favorite choice for cheap and quick seduction. The trick is simple. Take a babe out to a bar, some nice music, some small talk, and a few drinks later she’s lap dancing naked for you. This, of course, only holds, as I found out myself a few times, if you can outdrink the bitch (an Irish redhead once had her way with me after I tried to get her drunk. I woke up in the morning with a huge hangover, wearing nothing but a quilt).

At any rate, scientific studies show that alcohol indeed makes people lose inhibitions and reservations, making them a lot more susceptible to seduction. Woman get looser, and see their partner in brighter, less judgmental, light. This simply means that you have a much better chance to get laid with alcohol, then without it. Since this is the case here are a few simple tips for drinking and fucking:

• Always opt for good quality alcohol - bad alcohol will only make you both tired and sick;

• Always drink in moderation - when it comes to alcohol and sex, there is fine line between getting loose and horny, to going numb, limp, and losing all sexual stamina. So do yourself a huge favor, if seduction is your game, and booze is your name, drink only until you get that nice warm feeling, and not a drop more;

• Choose the right type of seduction booze - red wine goes well with a romantic meal, but goes down bad on an empty stomach. For a pub date your sure bet is either white wine (flat or bubbly), or beer and one or two chasers. Good quality hard liquor (Whiskey, Gin, Tequila, etc’) in moderate quantities will almost always do the trick.

So get drinking and fucking!

Here are a few techniques for prolonging the sexual experience:

• Start & Stop Technique - don’t go all the way at once like an over eager rodeo rider. Do things in intervals - mix and match. You can start giving each other some oral sex, stop for a while for hugging and kissing, go back to sucking, have some intercourse, go back to oral . . . you get the point.

“I’m waiting. Tell me what to do!”

• Regular Masturbation - Men must masturbate regularly for two reasons: [1] the renewal of the sperm; [2] to avoid premature ejaculation or night ejaculation. If you know you are about to have a wild night, it is a good idea to masturbate that same morning, or even in closer proximity to the event. This will release unused sexual tension, as well as old sperm, and allow you to last longer when the time comes.

“I’m home alone, and so horny!”

• Wearing Condoms - this is an obvious one. Wearing a condom reduces the direct friction on your penis, thus allowing you to last longer.

“I’m on live sex chat!”

• Tantric techniques - this is not the place to elaborate on the full range of tantric techniques, but breathing correctly during sex, and/or applying pressure on certain parts of the genitalia (on the root of your dick, for instance), can prolong sex to almost unlimited lengths.

Since you are not going to suck your own dick (many have tried but only 1% of them have succeeded), we’ll deal here with the female side of the oral equation - giving good tongue. Here are some ground rules:

“Chat with me”

1. Get informed - giving good tongue is all about applying the correct amount of pressure on the right erogenous areas. In order to do that it is really a good idea to know where these are in the first place. So for crying out loud, open the fucking internet and learn where the female sexual organs are situated;
2. Keep safe - before sticking your tongue in the muff make sure the area looks and smells healthy. A pussy should smell like a combination of mild detergent and musk, any other smell is fishy. Keep in mind that the smell down there intensifies around the time of the monthly period, so not all strong odors are necessarily bad. Fortunately, the vast majority of women will only allow you down there if they are 110% sure their pussy smells of lilacs. Just to make sure, however, the finger test is a good technique to evaluate the situation on the ground before committing yourself. Without being too obvious, simply move your finger across her pussy and sniff. This move alone (scratch and sniff) is a turn on to many women, and you’ll get a chance to avoid environmental hazards;
3. Take it slowly - Even in the heat of passion, don’t charge in there like a raging bull. Unlike men who are ready to go as soon as lift up is achieved, women usually need a longer time to warm up. Begin by caressing and lightly kissing the flesh around her pussy while slowly and gently massaging her clit with the tip of your finger (if you don’t know where the clit is refer to rule no. 1 above). If all this goes well she should be wet by now and ready for the tongue treatment (the finger treatment will be discussed in a separate post);
4. Home in on the clit - when it comes to tonguing most of the focus should be on the clit. Most women reach orgasm from clitoral stimulation. Applying constant pressure on the clit is the first step towards sending your woman into sexual paradise;
5. Pressure and velocity - I know it sounds like the beginning of commentary on the National Geographic channel, but it’s actually the key to making your woman reach a tongue induced orgasm. As a rule of thumb start by massaging the clit slowly with your tongue, and gradually increase the pressure and velocity. To prolong the experience you can go slow and then fast, and then slow again, until explosion.

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After you’ll become a tongue master, you can combine advanced maneuvers such as fingering while sucking, and even the fine art of inducing squirting, but we’ll deal with these separately. Now mind you, giving good tongue requires some jaw stamina, and after the first few trials your mouth may go numb for a few days. However, practice makes better, so practice.

The philosophy behind the tongue

Oral sex is the most erotic thing you can do before penetration. Unfortunately, too many guys out there think of oral sex as a one sided affair summarized in two words - blow job. Well people, I’ve got news for you - the times when most women satisfied themselves by satisfying their man is well gone in most normal societies. Today more and more women, especially the young and hot ones (i.e. the ones you want to fuck in the first place), are seasoned veterans of many a female orgasm (due to men’s much too common ineptitude in this field, these are mostly self induced).

“I’m waiting to lick your lollipop!”

If you think you can lay butt naked on your back, hands stretched behind your head, and have your dick sucked with no strings attached, think again. Unless you are the master in a BDSM oriented relationship (a subject I’ll deal with in a separate post), getting a blowjob is now a two track deal. I blow you - you blow me. A reciprocal oral sex is no longer a mere recommendation at the discretion of the bloke, no. Today it is a prerequisite of most, if not all, babes. Not only that, but many a woman will judge a guy by his tongue skills, the motto being - “you can’t suck pussy, you can’t have pussy!”. But that’s only the half of it - in many cases the scales have turned completely, and you may find yourself unilaterally servicing a pussy - life’s a bitch ain’t it? Keep in mind that polls among young western babes reveal time after time that guys who give good tongue are hard to come by, and are hot sought after merchandize. Now combine that fact with the revelation in my first sex-tip that women talk about guys, and you’ve got a potent recipe to get pussy and loads of it (I have a friend who actually made a successful career out of being a master pussy licker).

“I want to be creamed!”

Having said all that, you should be able to understand by now that in order to better your chances of getting laid you must learn how to suck pussy, and learn to do it well. Keep posted and I’ll tell you how.

Of course if you can’t wait, you can always ask one of the gorgeous webcam babes on adult live sex chat to give you pointers . . .

This time we’ll offer you important sex stamina tips pertaining to the issue of pre-ejac. Premature ejaculation is a problem some of you are probably sadly familiar with. Nothing and I mean absolutely fucking nothing will destroy your chances more than opening the flood gates prematurely. What the fuck are you going to do when you run out of gas? Let’s face it - you have little more than a spoonful of cum and it’s going to be a while before you’re locked and loaded again. Granted premature ejaculation is something that is difficult to control, at least initially, and thus difficult to avoid using simple sex stamina tips. However, don’t despair, help is at hand. If you suffer from pre-ejac the first thing you should do is seek professional help. There are great medical remedies available today and you needn’t suffer. However, while you wait for your appointment let me give you two sex stamina tips that might help you. First and foremost learn how to relax. Yoga is always a good thing to learn, but you can also get books on Kama Sutra or Tantric Sex.

“Let the doctor take your problems away!”

Second, and most important, shift your focus from your pleasure to your partner’s. In this regard you can refer to sex tips for g spot, or tips a girl wants to have sex with you, etc’ in order to learn the necessary skills to pleasure a woman. Think of these skills not in the sexual sense, but rather as technical skills - like fixing a car. Transforming yourself into a woman pleasure mechanic is a great sex stamina tip. In this way you can actually transform your pre-ejac problem into a great sex advantage.You see, knowing the sex tips for g spot pleasuring will not only make you a sought after lover, but will also allow you to shift your focus from your own throbbing dick to her throbbing motor. Concentrating on the technical task ahead will make it much easier for you to control your impulse to shoot your load prematurely. It’s really a win-win scenario. You keep your urges at bay, and your partner gets great pit-stop service. Good luck!

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