The butterfly sex position is one of the easiest, most comfortable, fun sex positions in existence. It is a frontal, man in power, sex position, and allows for an extremely natural angle of penetration.

In the basic butterfly position the woman lays on her back, with her buttocks on the edge of a surface - usually a bed or a couch, but a higher surface; such as the kitchen counter can also be used - and her feet planted on the floor, or if the surface is high, dangling beneath her. The man simply positions himself between her legs, his penis lined up with her vagina. If you use a bed or a couch this means you will have to go on your knees. In this case, I suggest placing a pillow underneath your knees. Now you are in a perfect angle of penetration.

Once inside all you have to do is move your pelvis in and out. It doesn’t take a lot of effort to achieve extremely deep penetration. For even deeper penetration, the woman on her part should thrust her pelvis forward and her stomach downwards each time you thrust inward. Soon enough you’ll enter into perfect synchronization.

Since the entire movement on your part is pelvis movement, your hands remain free. Use them for some extra clitoral stimulation, or in order to caress her body, and boobs.

From the basic butterfly position, you can move to many offshoot positions. These include frontal, man in power positions, such as the deep impact, the downward drill, the arch, the bridge, the cradle, the cross, the mirror of bliss, the pirate’s slave, and many more. I’ll elaborate on these in my next posts.

Meanwhile, try the amazing buttrfly position - you’ll go flying!

The doggy style sex position is one of the oldest one in the book. This quintessential man in power sex position takes us back to our primal instincts and emotions. Unlike the boring and very limited missionary position, the basic doggy style position is extremely versatile, and provides a natural angle of penetration. It’s versatility gave rise to a myriad of variations with exotic names such as the bulldog style, the basset hound position, the frog leap position, and the prison guard position, etc’. whatever variation of the doggy style you choose, here are a few pointers to enhance the experience:

1. Enjoy the view - After positioning yourself behind your partner take some time to stroke your penis on her buttocks and ass crack. Some body oil can come in handy in this pleasurable endeavor. While you are back there you can also appreciate the sexy contours of your woman’s butt, back, and neck;
2. Heat conductive doggy style position - The basic doggy style position is an alienated power sex position. The man is normally called upon to stay in a backstage position, holding the woman by the hips, or else support himself with his arms. I suggest you go instead for a Heat Conductive version of the doggy style position. In this variation instead of staying back, lean forward until your chest smears against your partner’s back, your hear on her neck. In this position you will feel her every quiver, and also get the added advantage of an easy access to her boobs;
3. Rodeo your woman - If you woman has long hair, you can try the rodeo doggy style position. From whatever doggy style position you decide to begin with, simply grab hold of her hair, pulling her head slightly back, and rodeo her butt. Just make sure you don’t overdo it;
4. Go BDSM - from any initial variation of the doggy style position you can add some enjoyable spanking. Try combining the hair grabbing maneuver, with some spanking action. It does take some coordination, but is great fun;
5. Anal fun - since in any doggy style position the man is in control over his woman’s back side, why not make use of the opportunity, and the extremely comfortable position to have some consensual anal fun.

So go creative with the doggy style sex position!

The basic missionary position -so called because it’s the recommended sexual position by most avid practitioners of all three chauvinistic monotheistic religions - is limited and boring. It calls for the man to come between the woman’s legs, balancing himself above her with his upper body and arms. This position constrains the range of motion, and the angle of penetration is awkward and not comfortable (and also sometimes painful for the woman). In order to make the most of it here are a few pointers:

• Get closer - the classic missionary position calls for you to sort of hang above the woman, using your arms as leverage. I suggest that instead you get close to her, hugging her body so that your upper bodies are smeared together, her boobs tight against your chest, your head next to her ear and chick. This move will immediately transform the remote classic missionary position, into a modern heat conductive position;

• Get entangled - with your bodies tightly against each other, reach with your hands under her back, and grab hold of her buttocks with your palms. You can do this with both hands, or only with one, leaving the other to caress her tits, or do anything else (stroke her hair, for instance). With your hand underneath her, you can now use your masculine power (if you have any) to control her body. you can, for instance, make her role a bit to the side, or even lift her completely of the bed. Most women just love this kind of raw masculine power being exerted on them;

• Lift and pump - once you are close together, your arms under her, lift her legs around you. If she can (if she is flexible enough, and most women are) she should close her legs around your pelvis. Now you are like one body, with you controlling the action. From this position try, for instance, to lift yourself to a sitting position with her clinging to your body.

  

Try these tips, and see how with small changes you transform the alienated boring missionary position into a new and exciting heat conductive modern position. Enjoy!

Living in a densely populated urban area, I get to hear lovemaking as it happens. Shouts and screams of utter sexual bliss are part of my night score. Women, of course, are expected to express themselves vocally, and those who don’t risk the stigma of frigidity. Guys, on the other hand, can conduct an entire fucking sessions as though they were silent movie stars. So, wake the fuck up! Women like to hear you moan with pleasure as much as you like to hear them. Now mind you we’re not talking about running live commentary of your anal/oral/vaginal penetration - you are not on ESPN.

“cum make me shout!”

What we’re talking about is keeping the channels of communication open - expressing yourselves. The act of fucking is naturally intimate (well, most of the time) and decidedly intense. The way to enhance the entire experience is through body language, sensitivity, praise, encouragement, talking, moaning, screaming, and so forth. All of these verbal and non-verbal gestures will lead to a heightened awareness and appreciation of just what’s going on between you and your partner as you exchange fluids.

“I’m sexpressing myself!”

So after you’ve talked your head off just to persuade the bitch to get into bed with you, don’t go dumb when you finally get her there. Sexpress yourself!

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Now guys this is one area where you’re going to have pay particular attention. If you - like the vast majority of sex-starved males out there - are looking to get some serious pussy, then you are going to have to follow a basic rule of thumb. Are you ready? Here it comes - keep yourself clean and lightly perfumed (we do not want to rinse the arousing musk odor completely) before oral or penetrative sex. Pay special attention to your cock and balls.

“I’m here to serve you!”

We can’t always predict when these sexual encounters are likely to occur, so you’ll really do yourself a lot of good if you make cleanliness a way of life. There’s nothing worse for a chick than getting repulsed by your body odor. On a serious note though: what’s your take on sex hygiene? Are you a diver; a weed-whacker; a pussy-eating fiend, or a guy who likes to play it safe and go for conventional sex? You know the academic banger - that ritualistic missionary sex with a condom and a little foreplay. Well, let’s get one thing straight here guys - the gals love a guy who loses all inhibitions in the act of lovemaking. Love juices will flow; let’s keep it nice and clean.

“I love sex-hygienic guys!”

Babes want a man to take charge; to lay down the law - so to speak. So take responsibility! There’s a lot of nasty little critters out there - spare yourself the indignity and make sure you stay virus free. Whatever your fetish, that’s your business, but it’s good to be sexually hygienic. So get cleaned up; this is your big moment. Keep your apartment all clean and neat, make sure your clothes are stain and stench free, every so often trim the forest down there, clip your nails for fucks sake, bath often and have at least one expensive bottle of men’s perfume at hand, and always carry mints with you.

“can you please cum help me!”

Believe me - keeping clean and hygienic can make all the difference when it comes to getting laid! And if you don’t believe me, you can ask them yourself . . .

Play can be defined as an unstructured, or structured, activity which engages the senses and the imagination in order to manipulate and mold the perceived reality into temporary new forms. Playing among people involves all sorts of make-believe or pretend interactions, either with other people, or with oneself. Playing also sometimes incorporates props, or toys, in order to enhance the make belief environment and render it more realistic. Games usually have some sort of vaguely defined goals, but these are tentative, and prone to quick changes. Games are a dynamic arena. Adult sex games are no different!

“Cum play with us!”

We all play all the time. In our workplace, at home, in the public arena, among friends, and even alone. The ability to play is crucial for defining our place in society, as well as our self image. It is a well proven fact that people who have good playing skills are usually found to be intelligent and highly imaginative. Traits that are crucial for success in our personal and professional life. It is also a well known fact that men who know how to play are more successful with woman and get laid more, much more. It is indeed no coincidence that the activities entailed in meeting a sexual partner is called “the courting game”.

“Please come play with me!”

So, our sex tip for today is learn how to play! and don’t worry, in our future posts we’ll take you through the ropes step by step beginning with the all important courting and seduction game in real life as well as on the internet, and ending with the fun filled adult bed games. So keep posted!

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After the general setting has been achieved (see my previous post for that), begin with your usual foreplay. Go down on your woman’s pussy with a passion reserved for premium-grade ice-cream. Massage her clit gently (we’ll deal with the art of sucking pussy at another time). When she is thoroughly wet and moaning like a bitch in heat, you may reach for the vibrator.

“Let me show you how to do it!”

Make sure you have soothing background music, so that the buzzing/drilling of the vibrator will not overpower the atmosphere you so painstakingly created. Now, use the vibrator to gently apply constant pressure on her clit. If she likes it, and after you make sure she is wet, you can insert a finger, or a few fingers into her vagina, and finger fuck her. You can also divide the workload between your tongue and the vibrator. Keep applying gentle pressure on her clit - that’s the secret you know.

“now I’m ready to come!”

Unless she expressly requests it, refrain from shoving the fucker into her pussy. Leave that task to your own erect, pulsing, manly penis. You may also fuck her in such a position that leaves you enough maneuvering room to also massage her clit with the vibrator. At any rate, it all comes down to keeping constant gentle pressure on her clit. If everything works according to plan and you have managed to create a steaming sexual atmosphere, she will soon explode with a vengeance. Keep a towel ready. Good luck!

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The art of using a vibrator is not so much in the actual mechanics as in the surrounding atmosphere. Get the atmosphere wrong, and the whole thing will become cheap and dirty, get it right and sparks will fly.

“It’s all about the atmosphere!”

The secret lies in the ability to elegantly integrate the use of a vibrator as an inseparable part of the sexual experience. Otherwise the whole thing can become a mechanical drilling operation. In order to achieve the right atmosphere, follow this rule: a vibrator that appears in the first act will be made use of in the third!

“I couldn’t wait for the last act!”

Use it straight away and the whole suspense element is flushed down the toilet, and you’ll be left with a box-office-disaster. Instead, only introduce the vibrator in the beginning. Place it visibly next to the bed, but don’t reach for it. Its presence alone will create a healthy anticipation. You may discuss the issue, making sure your partner is willing for you to conduct experiments on her tingling pussy, but postpone the actual deed until things are more heated up.

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The third advantage provided by sex toys is their ability to facilitate great female orgasms. Listen closely! this is a great revelation: women like to orgasm as much as men do! Unfortunately, unlike men who shoot their load with relative ease, most women need prolonged clitoral stimulation to reach an orgasm.

“Cum stimulate my clit!”

Now, simple logic:

assertion no. 1 - making a woman climax, especially with casual sex, will elevate your manly status from “yeah, it was ok, I have to leave now!” to “that was fucking awesome! When can I see you again?”;

Assertion no. 2 - making them reach a fucking orgasm can be a grueling physical task which may end in a sprained tongue, or a dislocated finger;

Assertion no. 3 - dildos and vibrators are excellent for generating female orgasms. Heck, women themselves often view them as an adequate substitute for men in general;

“Go bananas with sex toys!”

Conclusion - learn how to use a fucking vibrator. It will save you a load of sweat, and can also be interpreted as creative and kinky, which are two very lucrative characteristics when it comes to branding yourself as an alpha-sex-male. Good vibrations!

So, get creative and go bananas with sex toys!

The second advantage of sex toys is that they bring a lot of spice into your sex life. Modern humans have been dubbed by evolutionists as “the playing man”. We play as part of our social bonding. From a young age we all play, of course, in order to learn and implement necessary social skills, but we continue to play throughout our entire lives.

“This is the strangest looking strawberry I ever seen!”

Be it courting games, sports, career moves, or political games, our social arena is a huge playing field with fabulous attractions. Among the most exciting of these games are the sex games, and what are games without TOYS? It can be great fun to turn the bed into a “sand-box” for adults. Today you have at your disposal an array of dildos, pocket rockets, anal plugs, fur covered hand cuffs, straps, love chairs, kinky underwear, sex-machines, latex pussies, Chinese balls, the old whipped cream and strawberries, and a myriad of other crazy sex appliances invented for the betterment of mankind.

“Please be my bed toy!”

So don’t miss out, and treat yourself and your partner to some bed toys!