The art of using a vibrator is not so much in the actual mechanics as in the surrounding atmosphere. Get the atmosphere wrong, and the whole thing will become cheap and dirty, get it right and sparks will fly.
“It’s all about the atmosphere!”
The secret lies in the ability to elegantly integrate the use of a vibrator as an inseparable part of the sexual experience. Otherwise the whole thing can become a mechanical drilling operation. In order to achieve the right atmosphere, follow this rule: a vibrator that appears in the first act will be made use of in the third!
“I couldn’t wait for the last act!”
Use it straight away and the whole suspense element is flushed down the toilet, and you’ll be left with a box-office-disaster. Instead, only introduce the vibrator in the beginning. Place it visibly next to the bed, but don’t reach for it. Its presence alone will create a healthy anticipation. You may discuss the issue, making sure your partner is willing for you to conduct experiments on her tingling pussy, but postpone the actual deed until things are more heated up.
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