After the general setting has been achieved (see my previous post for that), begin with your usual foreplay. Go down on your woman’s pussy with a passion reserved for premium-grade ice-cream. Massage her clit gently (we’ll deal with the art of sucking pussy at another time). When she is thoroughly wet and moaning like a bitch in heat, you may reach for the vibrator.
“Let me show you how to do it!”
Make sure you have soothing background music, so that the buzzing/drilling of the vibrator will not overpower the atmosphere you so painstakingly created. Now, use the vibrator to gently apply constant pressure on her clit. If she likes it, and after you make sure she is wet, you can insert a finger, or a few fingers into her vagina, and finger fuck her. You can also divide the workload between your tongue and the vibrator. Keep applying gentle pressure on her clit - that’s the secret you know.
Unless she expressly requests it, refrain from shoving the fucker into her pussy. Leave that task to your own erect, pulsing, manly penis. You may also fuck her in such a position that leaves you enough maneuvering room to also massage her clit with the vibrator. At any rate, it all comes down to keeping constant gentle pressure on her clit. If everything works according to plan and you have managed to create a steaming sexual atmosphere, she will soon explode with a vengeance. Keep a towel ready. Good luck!
If you want to see how its done in real time and get some hands-on practice, go live and direct your own tutorial!
